@imedia You don't need to change fuse for OTA. It's mostly for low battery.
I've use mysensors boot loader from MYSController 0_1_2_282.
However you need usbasp bootloader burning cable and also I use avrdudess s/w to burn boot loader.
I don't know why but I was unable to burn bootloader from arduino or any other s/w.
Only problem is after you use mysensors bootloader, you can't use arduino to burn firmware on it.
Ah I use arduino pro mini 3.3V version.
After you load firmware on MYController, you have to reset node to start burn firmware from controller.
Hope this save your time.
Thanks.